A Birthday Dilemma Unfolds

AITA for prioritizing my wife over my niece’s birthday party? I, a 25-year-old man, am the godfather of my spoiled 6-year-old niece, and I usually participate in dressing up for her themed celebrations.

Last Saturday, my sister requested me to dress up as an Encanto character for my niece’s Disney-themed birthday. Despite committing three weeks prior, my pregnant wife, aged 25, was experiencing severe symptoms, and the night before the party, she urged me to attend, albeit reluctantly.

Feeling torn, I chose to stay with my wife for emotional support, leading to missed calls and texts when we turned off our phones for a nap. My niece’s tantrum resulted in an early end to the party, and my family blamed me for breaking a promise. Amidst accusations that my wife manipulates my time, tensions rose, and insults were exchanged.

Seeking Opinions: Am I in the Wrong?

Now, facing widespread disapproval, I question if I made the right choice. While they label me as selfish, I argue that prioritizing my wife’s well-being over the party was a reasonable decision. Share your thoughts, and I’ll address any questions.

Note: My wife, though physically stable at the time, sought emotional support. Turning off the phone was a preemptive measure due to family dynamics. We apologize for any confusion and appreciate your understanding of our Spanish background.

Let’s hear some of Redditor’s opinions:

Do they have rights?